So if you know me, you know that I have a few girl crushes in my life. We all have them, or have had them at some time. It's that person we think is just so amazing and perhaps we have never even met them. There's just something about them that speaks to us and we might even want to emulate that person is some way. I have two girl crushes, one on Kate Middleton and the other on a Zumba Education Specialist named Gina Grant. I believe (maybe I hope) that this is completely normal! I think it's healthy to look and admire personality traits about certain people and want that for ourselves. Here's the tricky part. A girl crush can turn ugly fast. It can turn into jealousy or even into self hate because we will never be that person and then sadly, the next question it "Is myself good enough."
The answer is YES! My A-ha moment was that voice sharing something with me and I'm now going to share it with you! There is NO ONE like you! Did you know that? You are so special that no one else in the world is you. You are unique and custom made. No one else has what you have and can do what you do. There is NO COMPETITION. Why don't we identify the trait that we love or admire about someone and adopt it into our own personalities.
We can't be something we are not, but we can strive to be our best selves!
The answer is YES! My A-ha moment was that voice sharing something with me and I'm now going to share it with you! There is NO ONE like you! Did you know that? You are so special that no one else in the world is you. You are unique and custom made. No one else has what you have and can do what you do. There is NO COMPETITION. Why don't we identify the trait that we love or admire about someone and adopt it into our own personalities.
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